Nonverbal Cues of Communication

Body Language is the package in which a message is sent in. The outward appearance will determine how the receiver of the message will approach the words of the message. The delivery of words through body language can completely change the meaning of the words being used so it is a significant portion of communication. Some nonverbal cues that I project to others while in a professional setting are by having my shoulders held back so that I can get enough oxygen drawn to my diaphragm. Many times when I am in front of a group of others, at times I begin to get nervous and speak faster so by displaying a good posture, I am able to confidently express my opinions and converse with others. I feel as though by keeping my head leveled and held high allows others to understand that the words that are being said are thought through and legitimate. While in front of my friends, my body language displays a bold and confidant self through the clothes and colors I choose to wear. I enjoy wearing feminine dresses that speak to other women when I walk as though I am self-assured. Although at times I may not feel certain of my assertiveness, by being aware of my body language and the vibes that I give off to others around, will influence the feedback that I receive. With this feedback I can reassure myself so that I begin to truly believe and exude confidence. As I mentioned before that my sense of fashion helps to express and give off certain vibes for the clothing that I choose are bold with vibrant colors. I choose to wear colorful clothing in order to become more attracting and therefore more approachable by others. The facial expressions that are most influencing, I believe would be eye contact and smiling. This lets others know that they are being noticed through gaining eye contact with them and when smiling, it can be contagious. Others want to feel that they are receiving energy from others, not being drained. A smile is a simple way to communicate self assurance and welcoming vibes. The mental attitude has a heavy influence on the vibes that are being communicated to others. If someone has a poor attitude about how they are feeling or their surroundings this will also be communicated in their walk; it may be slower, in their posture; maybe they are slouching as well as in their facial expressions; they may be avoiding eye contact or looking down at the ground. All of these nonverbal cues leave room for others to doubt and feel uncertain as to what is communicated between themselves and a person with a negative attitude. Not to mention that because it is not attracting, people will tend to shine away. The mental state or attitude is where the conscious self can begin to take control of their nonverbal communication.